Are
You on the Road to Divorce Court?
Have You Forgotten Why
You Married Your Spouse?
Do You Truly Want to Save Your Marriage?
Even if You are Feeling Hopeless…
YOU Can Learn How to Save your Relationship!
YOU Can be Happily Married!
And WE Can Show You How In This e-Book!
Your marriage is
in big trouble!
Your spouse does
not understand you, and you barely talk to each other anymore.
When you first got
married, you were so much in love – you couldn’t bear
to be apart!
But, NOW you don’t
spend any real time together!
You are starting to think that there is only one way out, and that way is DIVORCE!
But,
YOU STILL LOVE YOUR PARTNER…AND YOUR PARTNER CLAIMS THEY STILL LOVE YOU!
Does this sound like your marriage?
If it does, you are not alone!
Today divorce has become easier and more common than ever!
However, DID YOU KNOW that most people who divorce because they are unhappy find that they are NO HAPPIER AFTER THE DIVORCE?
And in the process, they inherit all kinds of other divorce-related problems with their children, family and finances.
All right then, so you want to change things. You are ready, willing and (you hope) you are able to fix your marriage.
SO NOW WHAT?
Maybe you even tried to improve your relationship before, but you got stuck, neither you nor your spouse knows how to make things right again!
That’s OK
We can help!
You don’t need costly counseling or thick expensive books.
The road to an improved marriage, for both parties, starts from within. All you have to do is break old
habits and learn new techniques.
And we can show you how!
We’ll teach you simple methods and techniques, and with practice and TRUE COMMITMENTto your marriage and partner, YOU WILL SUCCEED!
In our e-book, you’ll meet other couples who share your problems, and you’ll learn how they successfully improved their marriages.
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Meet
Amanda and Kennett
Amanda finally
took her children and finally left Kennett one day!
She thought
their marriage was beyond repair. They had long since
stopped communicating and she didn’t believe Kennett
would EVER commit and recognize his behavior or try to
change in any way.
But, THEY
DID GET IT RIGHT via counselling and they started
to communicate.
Are YOU
like Amanda? Have you given up on your marriage?
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DON’T DESPAIR! YOU CAN SAVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP!
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How
about Jeannie and Bob?
Jeannie resigned
herself to what she thought was an average or mediocre
marriage.
She tried to
find other activities and interests to fill the hole created
by her unfulfilled marriage.
But it didn’t
work.
She even had
a child, hoping that her relationship with her child would
give her the affection she needed.
But that didn’t
work either!
She was resigned
to spending the rest of her life in a poor marriage.
Until Bob decided
to COMMIT TO CHANGE
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I’m sure
you understand Jeannie’s feelings!
Maybe you even share Bob’s commitment to improve his marriage. Your problems may be different, but that doesn’t mean you can’t solve them!
AND WE CAN and WILL HELP you to get your marriage back on track!
The good news is: These Methods are very EASY TO LEARN!
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e-Book Excerpt:
So You Think You Have Problems?
"You might find it surprising to know that over the past thirty years, the number of Americans who say they would like to be married is well over 90%. That much has not changed.
75% of Americans still say that marriage should be a life-long commitment that should not be abandoned, except under the direst of circumstances.
And even AFTER a bad experience with divorce or separation, more than 80% of those surveyed thought that marriage should be for life.
What do you think?
The average unhappy marriage looks something like this:
Young adults
Employed, but lower income
Children in the household
But, that is not to say that unhappily married couples do not come in all shapes, sizes, age groups and income levels. You may wonder if there has ever been a study to determine whether those marriages that end in divorce are actually ‘unhappier’ than those where the couples decide to stay together.
Studies HAVE illustrated that marriages ending in divorce experienced more fighting, more conflict, an environment of stress and unhappiness and, twice the rate of spousal abuse and violence.
But, spousal abuse and violence was reported in only 20% of these cases, and only in 10% of unhappy marriages where the couple decided to stay together.
So if the UNHAPPIEST people – the ones who endure the most conflict, fighting and environmental stress – are the ones that decide to seek a divorce, then it should hold true that after the divorce, these people would be happier and more balanced. But, no!
Studies show that those unhappily married people who decided on divorce were no happier or emotionally well balanced after the divorce than they were during the marriage!
In other words, divorce did not solve all of their problems!
And consider this: 90% of the couples who reported the UNHAPPIEST marriages, but stayed in the relationship, later reported that they were ‘happily married’ during a five-year follow-up study.
There is still much research to be done to determine the success rate of marriage versus divorce in turning unhappy people into happy people.
Under what circumstances does a divorce makes sense, and when you should try to stay with your marriage, and improve it with a reasonable expectation of success?
For now, the statistics and studies show intriguing results and are, at the very least, and encouraging sign for those who want to stay with their spouse.
So, how would you categorize your own marriage?
Is your marriage really in trouble, or do you have the kinds of normal rocks and bumps that most people have, and exactly how do you TELL if you need help?
Maybe you are just like everyone else. Maybe this is as happy as a marriage is supposed to be?
If you have been married for more than a few weeks, you can vouch for the fact that marriage is not like it is in the fairy tales.
You meet the person of your dreams, and fall in love. You get married in a beautiful ceremony, and or course you live happily ever after! But, it really doesn’t happen that way! So what constitutes a happy marriage versus a troubled marriage?
It really depends on when you look at the marriage.
For example, some couples marry young and, in that case, husbands and wives may take some time to mature and to get the hang of a mature relationship.
If you look at these couples in year two of their marriage, they may seem troubled. But, by year five, they may have hit their stride.
Whereas some young couples are so young and immature when they marry that they grow in different directions as they age and, their marriage is BETTER in the early years than it is after five years together.
Then, there are the couples that have specific issues to resolve. These issues may relate to one or more of the following:
Sexual compatibility or desire
One person likes to resolve issues by fighting, while the other is more cerebral
The desire to have children or to remain childless
One person comes from wealth, while another is used to living on a shoe-string
One spouse is a homebody, while the other loves to go out every night
One person is lazy and sloppy, and the other is a ‘neatnik’
One person is very talkative and the other is more private
And, the list goes on. You can probably add a few of your own.
This is not to say that a couple cannot resolve any or all of these issues.
It is merely to recognize that there ARE issues to be resolved as married couples learn to live together.
It is when a couple fails to compromise that these issues become BIG PROBLEMS!
After many years of study, some researchers feel they can predict the overall likelihood of marital failure.
That is, a marriage that will fail because issues are not resolved over time, as opposed to a marriage that is just going through a rough patch. Look at your marriage, and see where your relationship falls in the continuum...”
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‘Preventing a Divorce –-- Saving and Maintaining a Marriage’ is a systematic guide that will teach you how to break old habits and learn new techniques to improve your relationship and build a rock solid foundation of years of happy marriage!
Here's SOME of What You’ll Learn
How to tell whether
your marriage is in trouble
- How to GET YOUR
MARRIAGE BACK ON TRACK
- How to build and
keep your commitment to your spouse
- How to COMMUNICATE
AND LISTEN
- Even how to gain
support from YOUR CHILDREN and YOUR FAMILY
We’ll also show
you
- Techniques for
‘active listening’
- Guidelines to
keep your marriage on track
- How to talk to
your spouse without getting angry
- How to avoid ‘DEFEND
AND ATTACK’ behavior
- AND SO MUCH MORE! After all this IS NOT a 10 or 15 page 'QUICK FIX' report.
SO? Why are you STILL waiting?
Get your copy of ‘OLIN'S Preventing a Divorce –-- Saving and Maintaining
a Marriage!’
You don’t need a lengthy, boreing e-book or expensive counseling.
ALL YOU NEED is your
own commitment and the time to practice and learn these
new methods.
ALL YOU NEED is the
desire, the focus and a copy of ‘Preventing
a Divorce – Saving and Maintaining a Marriage’
and you are ON YOUR WAY TO A BETTER MARRIAGE! Period!
Isn’t fixing
and maintaining your marriage AT LEAST AS IMPORTANT as maintaining
your car?
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You
may ask:
Well, my marriage 'isn't on the rocks', (I'm preparing to get married), why then should I buy your e-book?
True. Your marriage 'isn't on the rocks', as you say. You aren't married yet. You may already have been through one or more divorces.
BUT, isn't it important to equip yourself with the knowledge so that
you know how to MAINTAIN A MARRIAGE and PREVENT these common problems! Maybe even help your friend(s) prevent a divorce!
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DON’T WAIT ANOTHER MINUTE!
Once you start to
implement the techniques in ‘Preventing a Divorce – Saving and Maintaining a Marriage’, you will:
- COMMUNICATE and
LISTEN better
- Recognize and
ADDRESS NEW PROBLEMS as they arise
- SHARE and EXPERIENCE
a BETTER QUALITY of TIME
- ENJOY and PARTICIPATE
in your RELATIONSHIP
You CAN do this! Starting Right NOW!
Use these proven techniques and exercises to improve and fix your marriage NOW! PLEASE DON’T OPT FOR DIVORCE BEFORE GIVING THIS A TRY! You will want to be able to say that you tried EVERYTHING, if you do still opt for divorce at a later time if this doesn't work and do what it is GUARANTEED to do!
You’ll see improvement
within WEEKS, and within a few MONTHS, you will wish you had started this program much earlier! Seriously!
Unfortunately for you, we can’t do this for you!
YOU MUST MAKE THE RECOMMITMENT to YOUR SPOUSE and to IMPROVING YOUR MARRIAGE!
YOU have to take the first step towards change!
We're sure you would agree with us when we say: "your marriage is worth the one more recommited effort and $22.95 USD" Right?
Please get YOUR copy of ‘OLIN'S Preventing a Divorce – Saving and Maintaining a Marriage…and rediscover the joys of YOUR marriage!
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